What is Homophobic Bullying?

M.C. Huguelet

Homophobic bullying is unfriendly, intimidating, humiliating, or otherwise harassing behavior directed at an individual who is or alleged to be gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender (GLBT). It may be physical, verbal, or emotional in nature. Homophobic bullying can be traumatizing, causing the bullied individual to avoid work or school, feel isolated, become depressed, or even commit suicide. While this kind of bullying can occur anywhere, it is especially problematic in middle and high schools. Victims of homophobic bullying should seek the support of a trusted relative, friend, teacher, or one of the many GLBT support groups in existence.

Homophobic bullying may occur at school.
Homophobic bullying may occur at school.

There are a great many possible forms of homophobic bullying. Often, it takes a physical form, such as pushing, tripping, or striking the bullied individual, or defacing his property. In many cases, the bullying is verbal, including practices like spreading rumors and name-calling. It may also be emotional in nature, centering on such behaviors as excluding the bullied individual from a social group or refusing to work with him on a project.

Homophobic bullying may come from harassing texts or calls.
Homophobic bullying may come from harassing texts or calls.

The motivations behind homophobic bullying can vary widely. A bully may have been raised in a family or religious environment which condemned GLBT individuals, and believe he is merely acting in accordance with what he has been taught. As is the case with many instances of bullying, homophobic bullies often suffer from insecurity, and attempt to demonstrate that they belong to a group by highlighting others’ differences.

Homophobic emotional bullying can lead to isolation and alienation.
Homophobic emotional bullying can lead to isolation and alienation.

Victims of homophobic bullying can be severely traumatized by their experiences. They may avoid work or school due to emotional stress and fear for their physical safety. Additionally, they may begin to suffer from feelings of low self-esteem, isolation, and depression. In extreme cases, they may even contemplate or commit suicide.

Homophobic bullying may occur online.
Homophobic bullying may occur online.

While this type of bullying can happen anywhere, it is especially problematic when it occurs among middle and high school students. It is generally acknowledged that the teenage years are an emotionally difficult time during which one’s individuality begins to emerge. Bullying of any kind during this period can cause long-term damage to one’s confidence. A 2009 study of more than 7,000 US teens by the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) found that more than 80 percent of GLBT students had felt harassed at school in the previous year. This dramatic harassment rate seems to put GLBT teens at an especially high risk for lingering self-esteem issues.

Those being victimized by homophobic bullying should seek support to prevent feelings of isolation and unhappiness. They may wish to speak to a trusted relative, friend, counselor, teacher, or work colleague. Individuals who feel they cannot confide in those around them can find help from the many community, online, and telephone support groups.

Spreading rumors or calling someone names can be examples of homophobic bullying.
Spreading rumors or calling someone names can be examples of homophobic bullying.

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Try to stay in a group with friends, if possible. Try to not be alone in restrooms, hallways, etc. If you are not being bullied, but you know someone who is, help them! If you are just standing around watching, you’re being part of the problem and not the solution.

Report bullying as soon as it happens! Speak up and fight for your rights. Homophobic bullying, or any bullying, isn’t just physical. It can be verbal, social and cyber. Cyber-bullying is becoming a huge problem.


@dinoleash: Homophobic bullying is just as bad, or worse, than regular bullying and it is against the law! I’m sorry to hear that your neighbor’s son is going through that. I am a 5th grade teacher and we had to go to a conference on bullying, so I hope this helps.

The first thing to do if you are bullied is to stay calm. Bullies want attention. They want you to react to them. Don’t give them that pleasure. If there is a particular person doing the bullying, try to stay out of their path. Also, if they use physical force, try not to fight back. I know that doesn’t sound fair, but if a physical altercation breaks out, others will more than likely get involved and someone is going to get hurt.

We all have to pitch in and stand up to stop bullying now.


My neighbor's son is gay and is being bullied horribly at his school. My neighbor is so upset because she doesn't know what to do or how to make it stop. She is so worried because she knows what the effects of bullying can be. Does anyone have any suggestions that I could pass along to her?

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