For the past eight months, my husband has been secretly seeing someone. He has been talking on his cell five and six times a day and that someone is calling him more times on a daily basis. He gets out of the house in daytime without saying where and when he'll be back. Because I have caught his voice mail and text messages, (he erased them), his attitude towards me has changed to being verbally and mentally abusive, harassing and extremely cruel.
I'm a 67 year old woman who is afraid that something could happen to me. He is 66 and seeing a 42 year old woman. My retirement income is double the larger of his.